very nice family

people post their family photos.  husband. wife.  kids.  grandkids.  dogs.  etc.  and people comment how they have such a great family. how they have done such a good job raising those kids.  you know the kind.  and as i saw one of the saints commenting on multiple such photos, i wondered, will i..or others...with our fractured families and broken hearts get to be included in such accolades?  or are we now exempt?  failures.  not allowed to be commended.
i don't really mind, i just want to be sensitive to people.  to see them.  for the family they have.  i hope that i have been.  i know that i will be.
be blessed.