bad girls

a church lady called me a bad girl tonight.  in the kindest way.  she asked me how i really am.  someone i only kind of know.  but who has been divorced for a very long time. she got that i was happy.  she got that maybe i don't want to see my ex.  she said...we need to go out for drinks.  she didn't think that my silence meant that i liked my exes presence...she actually saw.  was a little bit cool.  she made me laugh.  out loud.  she yelled back as she walked in the building, "you are a BAD girl...and i mean that in a good way!"  oh my goodness, how god always provides enough to help me get by in life.  love that.