Slowly

Funny how the mind works around things slowly.  Little bits coming together a little at a time.  Today I was wondering why my husband hasn't been depressed in all of this time.  Nope.  Chipper.  Goes to sports.  Works in the yard.  Sings.  Then, I remembered the long period when he was angry and depressed....had to do with money.  When our home remodel went way over budget.  He was really off.  Wouldn't be nice.  Wouldn't be happy.  Not to me.  But, with his marriage falling apart, no such response.  No emotion except for when he is pushing guilt at me....hmmmm.  Not sad.  Don't know what it means.  Not emotional about it.  Still, don't get it.  But, little brain is still at work.