find your balance

with children.

with friends.

with dreams.

with spouses.

with exes.

with stuff.

with family.

you've gotta hold on.

and you've gotta let go.

because you don't have to be in control.

neither do i.

you can love.

and enjoy. 

and care.

but you can't change people.

you can't change circumstances...

well, except by removing

YOURSELF.

seems to me like

people get all wrapped up in holding on

because sometimes they think that 

they can 

do it better 

or more right

than someone else.

happens a lot in how we deal with our teens.

only ONE that we can hold onto

be completely safe.

know that we can't control.

And He reminds us 

let go.

hold on.

it's all about balance.

about timing.

about patience.

about knowing

that God has it all

and we don't have to carry it

we just get to 

point to Him

and say,

"isn't HE amazing!"

we don't carry the world.

or even our families.

why do we act like we do?

i think because

we're

IMBALANCED.

time for an alignment.

blessings.