What is it about people around me? They are all rushing to the divorce lines. Great. Now I feel like some kind of follower. But, there has to be something about why. Perhaps we have all worked to raise our kids, happy or not, getting along or not....and then we finally just can't stand it anymore?
One couple I have most lately heard of, the woman found another man. Yet she and her husband still live together. Seems....um....awkward? Unusual? Maybe he is more gracious than I would be? Probably. He and the kids (both girls) are going to go live in an apartment. I can see why she was unhappy. It hit me awhile back hearing them together. But, I am still surprised by the enormity of the amount of changes they are going to go through.
I understand more. Judge less. Though I don't think that divorce should be the first option, I totally understand
Maybe I am less spiritual. But, perhaps I am more? Perhaps I understand more of how it feels. How painful things can get.
But, it is odd to think that many of the people that I knew in my thirties as marrieds are now divorceds.
Life is strange.
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