I have wondered what my responsibility is in getting the news out there about the separation. I mean, do I send notices, take out an ad, write individual letters, call? I'm not really sure. I have finally come to the conclusion that it will take time. Kind of how those circles of friendship are...concentric...rippling...and, over time, people will find out. Those closest, first. Others, later. And, I can rest in that. It is the natural way of things. Those that call or write or seek to know about me, will know. Those on the periphery will know later...or hear it through gossip. I'm not really too concerned about it anymore. Well, maybe a little. A few people more than others.
But, telling the truth doesn't mean locating every last soul and telling them....it just means sharing what is appropriate in the appropriate time.
At least that's where I've come to.
Maybe there's a book of divorce etiquette?
blessings.
But, telling the truth doesn't mean locating every last soul and telling them....it just means sharing what is appropriate in the appropriate time.
At least that's where I've come to.
Maybe there's a book of divorce etiquette?
blessings.
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