mspy

Wow.  I just saw a referring url on my stats.  It was called "mspy".  So, being me, I looked it up.  It's a phone where you can monitor someone's emails, sim card etc.  Wow, really?  It says on the website "you can control your husband."  What does that mean?  Knowledge is power?  Anyone who is that deceiving or in a relationship that has gone to that level should know this little tidbit before they spend the hundred bucks.....it's over sweetie.  If you are so freaked out that you are going behind his back (ditto to husbands doing it) then the trust is GONE. Not going....gone.
And, why be so sneaky?  If you don't trust what they say or what they are doing....hmmm.  Well, do you really want to be in a relationship with them?  Just seems odd to me.  Controlling.  Yuck.  Just go ahead and say what you want and what you need.  See where that gets you.  Then make good choices on how to live your life.  But don't do it in a paranoid, sneaky, underhanded way.  There's a reason we can't read people's minds.  God is kind.  Because everything we think or jot down is not what we intend.
Still mind blown.
grace to you.